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I dream of my Nan every night

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waveafterwaveafterwave · 26/04/2020 08:49

My Nan died last year, and I miss her terribly. She was the closest person in the world to me.

I wake up sad every day because she's always there in my dreams. Sometimes I wake up and forget she's dead.

Last night I dreamt that I was talking to her on the phone from the afterlife. I now feel sad that I will never speak to her on the phone again.

Has anyone else experienced this and how do you deal with it?

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chorusline79 · 26/04/2020 20:56

No advice on how to deal with this I'm afraid but I just wanted to say that I'm really sorry for your loss, and I hope it gets easier with time. I lost my grandad recently too.

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 27/04/2020 01:54

It's a visitation. A lot of people see their deceased relatives in dreAms.
I meet up with my mum and quite often.

echt · 28/04/2020 12:41

It's wish fulfilment.

As unsettling as my dreams of my late DH are, I'd give my right arm to have one.

I haven't dreamt of my parents or brother in years.

I envy you, OP.

Meadows20 · 13/05/2020 09:40

All the time. Sometimes I think I can smell my Nan as well. I cry quite often because I miss her so much.

I've found I just have to roll with it...I spent too long trying to hold everything in and that's why 18 months on I feel like I've regressed with my grief. Try to take it as a comfort that you can picture her and remember her voice. Better to talk to her in your dreams than not at all I think.

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