How to survive mothers day?

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I know it's early but I saw stuff in the shops today.
My mum passed away a couple of years ago, my nan last year so this year I have no female members to visit. Normally I see my family with ds and dh visits his mum.
I'm already very sad about having no one left, do I see my lovely mil with dh and the children or do something completely different. I will still see my mums ashes but maybe not on mothers day. What do you do?

So sorry for your losses. My DM passed away very suddenly four years ago, but I still miss her every day. My mil recently lost her husband so I am going to try to spoil her on Mother's Day. I do have relatives left but we don't really speak much. I miss having people to share memories with. Were you ver close with your DM?

I was, she was the person who I could talk to about anything and would have advice. Without a female senior relative I feel very alone and suddenly a grown up.