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The pain is horrible

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Flowerpot26 · 22/08/2019 21:27

My beautiful mum, 63 passed on the 12th, I can't belive it, she had been unwell for years but had so much desire for life and fun. It happened all so quick I still can't take it in, nor do I want to. I love her so much it was always the 2 of us. My mum was a only child, the last of her relatives died a few years ago, divorced from dad who I don't have much to do with, didn't remarry as she become unwell not long after, most of out life it was me and her, she was amazing. I'm married with a little baby, it just makes things even more sad that now planning her funeral there will only be a handful of people, the last 3 years spent in a care home, no family apart my my husband, 2 friends of hers, she was amazibg but this cruel Ms illness took so much away from her, I could not love her anymore she was my world I'm not sure how to cope without her

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FredaFrogspawn · 22/08/2019 21:29

She sounds so special. I’m so sorry you lost her. Definitely irreplaceable but she was there, she was your mum.

mommybear1 · 23/08/2019 09:53

So sorry for your loss Thanks

DowntonCrabby · 23/08/2019 09:56

I’m so sorry for your loss, be kind to yourself and reach out for help if you feel you need some councelling.

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AnotherMarrogFromMars · 23/08/2019 10:16

Your mum sounds amazing.

I'm so sorry you're going through this pain.

Easy to say, but try not to focus on how many people will be at her funeral. She had you, and your very clear love for her will have counted more than words can say.

Sending love.

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