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inquest date at last

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hazygirl · 26/07/2007 15:20

today i rang coroner and they r writing to us next week,due to postal strike,but wont b till 2nd october,after new baby is here,they said it would be april,last night was so positive, i went and bought a new crib ,we have to get ready ,my daughter is gutted, brill she says i will b registering his death and her birth at same time why does it all have to b shit

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constancereader · 27/07/2007 21:03

I don't know your story, but I didn't want to leave you unanswered.

It sounds like you are living through an unbelievably tough time, I'm so sorry. I hope today has been a bit better x x x

hazygirl · 27/07/2007 21:36

i lost grandson to cot death in december last year he was seventy five days old

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constancereader · 27/07/2007 22:55

I just haven't got the words hazygirl. I am so sorry. I can't imagine what you are going through, and your daughter too.

Although I haven't been through what you have, I do have experience of the way that things can seem a bit more postive one minute and then unbelievably shit in the next instant. It almost seems worse because of that moment you when you were ok, like you are 'paying' for it in some way.

Sending you all my best wishes, I will check in the morning to see if you are about and want to chat.

Look after yourself

xxxx

mummytosteven · 27/07/2007 22:57

sorry to hear that you lost your grandchild, and that there has been such a delay in the inquest.

toytownmum · 27/07/2007 23:00

Thinking of you and your daughter....
I registered the birth of DT1 and the death of DT2 on the same day, it was the hardest day of my (and DH) life.

Take Care

TTM x x

hazygirl · 28/07/2007 06:15

im sorry for your loss , my hubby is going to ask coroner if we can sort it out for them, whenever the coroner rings my daughter she tells him to ring us as she does not want to deal with it, i dont know if we can though, i know the parents have to register birth but what about death

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hazygirl · 28/07/2007 06:16

i will not be on line till sat pm as got an early shift tomorrow

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constancereader · 28/07/2007 16:32

Hi hazygirl, just wondering how your day went. Will be around later.

hazygirl · 28/07/2007 21:04

hi busy day,finished work then went shopping and then went to c the grandkids

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constancereader · 28/07/2007 21:08

Hope you were feeling a bit better xxxx Your daughter too

mamazon · 28/07/2007 21:11

i think it wouuld be ok for yout o register the death instead of your daughter, i know that it was my grandad that registered my sisters death as my parents just couldn't face it.

i am so sorry for your loss but hope that the birth of your grandaughter will help in some way to ease the pain you must all feel.

fawkeoff · 28/07/2007 21:12

Hi i hope u and ur family will be ok. you may feel a little better once its over with......its kind of hanging over your head at the moment and u dont know what do. i understand in that sense as it took 18 months for my twin bros inquest to start.am thinking of u >>>>>>>>>>HUGS

hazygirl · 28/07/2007 21:19

feeling better,had a good day ,lovely weather i was meant to have the kids tnite but daughter doesnt want to go out so partner went on his own,painted the girls room pink,how is everyone else

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