A bit of background, I have been with my partner over 4 years, everything is wonderful. We don’t live together yet but spend a lot of time at each other’s houses. He was widowed 10years ago. Recently there was a family gathering at which dp’s children 18+20 started playing old family videos, when the children were born, family parties etc. All the family were enjoying them and I felt really odd and made myself busy tidying up in the kitchen and finding other jobs to do. I don’t really know what I felt but I just felt really uncomfortable watching them. I have never felt anything other than total acceptance from dp children and even more so from his late wife’s family who we see regularly. Why did I feel so odd watching the videos? It’s not a jealousy thing,maybe partly that I was never part of that life and if they could they would all still have the life they once had. The kids talk about their dm in passing conversations and it’s lovely. I have been to the grave to take flowers with them and say hello etc. Is it normal to feel a little uncomfortable with certain situations that come up like this?