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I m/c 2 years ago today.

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petunia · 14/06/2007 11:58

That's just it really. Just wanted to put it down somewhere that I lost my little one (who I called Sam) at 11wks of pg. Just wanted to say that I think of him/her always and tell him that the rose I planted to remember him has a beautiful flower that's opened in the last few days (I actually went and kissed it this morning- what a silly thing to do!)

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toomuchtodo · 14/06/2007 12:00

so sorry to read this

not a silly thing to do at all, hope seeing the rose brings you some comfort today

xxx

kittylette · 14/06/2007 12:02

So sorry to hear of your loss.

The rose sounds a beautiful reminder of your little one and kissing it is not at all silly.

Thinking of you and Sam today x

daisyboo · 14/06/2007 12:08

Sorry to hear of your loss petunia and you are not silly at all. I've planted two passion flowers for the LOs I lost through two mcs adn it gives me great comfort to see them thriving and I can't wait for them to flower.

Take it easy today and take as much comfort from the flowers as you need to.

petunia · 14/06/2007 17:56

Thank you for your lovely messages. I was feeling a little glum this morning. I had a little cry and felt better (the pain never seems to totally go away, does it?) afterwards. I also took a picture of the rose to remind me of how it looks when it's not flowering.
Thanks once again.

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toomuchtodo · 14/06/2007 20:07

hope you have a relaxing evening!

tomorrow go out and treat yourself to a nice photo frame for your picture

xxx

Surfermum · 14/06/2007 20:08

Not silly at all. We have a jasmine in the garden in memory of my first mc. When it's the anniversary I start stroking it and talking to it.

Do whatever you need to to make yourself feel better.

xx

notsogummyanymore · 14/06/2007 20:10

thinking of you. it's not something you'll ever forget is it? i m/c at the same point. my lo would have been 3 in January. lots of hugs to you.

mojosmum · 16/06/2007 18:55

petunia - have just read your this thread & cried i miscarried at 8wks on march the 3rd 2yrs ago & find it so hard that im the only one who doesnt seem to have forgotten all about it i txt my mum on the day the baby should of been born off that yr & got no reply. for some stupid reason i thought i was the only one who feels that its still important its good to know that others still remember
so sorry to hear about about this but also a big big thank you for helping me maybe it would start to get easier for me if i give the baby a name i really think thats a lovely thing to do

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