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Girlfriends sister bereavement

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Rile · 18/05/2018 21:03

Hi there, around three months ago my girlfriends sister was murdered. There was no contact really between my girlfriend and her sister for a while. Her sister had blocked her on Facebook and messenger. When it all happened I was there for my girlfriend from the start all weekend. But from the following Monday she started shutting me out. We were supposed to go out the following week for mother’s day to take her mom out, with all her other brothers and sisters in law. I got up early on the Sunday but there was no contact of my girlfriend until 6pm the follow Sunday, she had been out. Since then she been coming and going. I don’t know what to feel. Then 3 weeks later she came to our apartment where we live and cleared everything out there saying she was going to live back at her moms. She has text me since saying she is depressed and was going to the doctors. When I have text and called she has completely blanked me... still going out tho with friends on nights out. Just don’t know what to think 🤔

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sunnydaynoworking · 01/06/2018 20:56

You can either hang in there or just move on. She’s really had her world turned upside down and it’s understandable her wanting to live at home for a bit. Three months is nothing. If you love her I’d write to her to say you’re here for her when she’s ready, and then just get on with your life for now.

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