Is anyone else having more arguments / worse / more intense arguments with their partner whilst bereaved? There's a lot of background - isn't there always?? - but there are flash points and a lot of horrible things being said. Last night was particularly bad. And ours boys were in bed upstairs, not asleep and heard a lot of it. There was talk of do we stay together or not. Lots of emotion. It was horrible. Am feeling very sad this morning, as is DH. Is it normal to have this intensity? I am so sad to read posts where people's DH's are their rock, their closest person and .... - that's not where I am at. Not least because DH is on the spectrum and at 43 years of age he's now decided to go and get that looked into. Any thoughts?