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Feeling Angry

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Othersideof40 · 25/09/2017 12:31

My Mum passed away from Pancreatic cancer 10 months ago, i have been up and down obviously with it. Over the summer i began to feel abit better, still missing jer everyday.
My OH mum has become poorly and everyone is rallying round helping her to get better, his family are expecting me to do the same, go and feed her, get her dressed etc.
I cant do it, after seeing the suffering my mum went through i just cant help out, it makes me feel bad, but i just cant. I had 2 years of seeing my Mum go through hell, especially those last few weeks. Ive also got My Nan very poorly (Mums Mum). My DD was affected so much by her Nannas death, still is now, shes 8, i cant keep taking her back and too to the hospital
His mum has a very bad watet infection that has sent her abit crazy and affected her mobility.
Today i woke up so angry, at the fact that my Mum isnt here anymore, i just dont know what to do to snap out of it.

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Ewanwhosearmy · 25/09/2017 13:06

Of course you are angry. It is one of the stages of grief and you have a lot to process. It is normal. 2 months is very soon after a loss. Be kind to yourself. Your OH will have to help out with his own mother and leave you out of it.

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