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My lovely mum

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Everybodylovesablankie · 04/08/2017 08:36

Hi everybody. I'm not sure why I'm making this post, just need a hand hold I guess. My lovely mum has passed away and I don't know how to cope.

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Ginfernal · 04/08/2017 08:37

I'm so sorry for your loss. Flowers

Janika · 04/08/2017 08:42

So sorry Flowers

GodIsDead · 04/08/2017 08:42

So sorry Flowers

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Everybodylovesablankie · 04/08/2017 09:15

Thank you for the Flowers I feel so sick and just can't accept I won't be able to see her any more how do you learn to cope with this awful crushing feeling?

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JDSTER · 04/08/2017 11:53

Flowers. My dad died a few weeks ago. I also struggle with the pain of knowing I can't see him or talk to him again. Do you have other family and friends to talk to and support you? At the moment you just need to take things hour by hour, day by day. Make sure you eat, even if you don't feel like it. Ongoing support on the long running thread for people who have lost a parent x

MrsMozart · 04/08/2017 11:55

Oh sweetie.

No wise words. You just do cope. The sun keeps coming up and you just keep going. Some days are better than others.

Gentle hugs Flowers

aprilanne · 04/08/2017 12:00

hi everybody i am so sorry for your loss .my mother died aged 62 4 years ago no illness no warning just didnt wake up one morning .i was shocked the first couple of months are the hardest but if you can lean on hubby or partner if you have one .i dont think the loss gets any easier but the pain does dull after a while and you learn to live round it .If you have children seeing to there needs does make things a bit easier because there needs have to be seen to and life must go on for them .but i am truelly sorry

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Everybodylovesablankie · 04/08/2017 19:38

Thank you all for the kind words and hugs. I'm sorry for everyone who has been through this and are going through it, it's such a sad club to join. I've spent the day with my dad, I feel better when I am with him. I've decided I am going to see her one last time, it was so traumatic in the hospital and I just need to have some quiet time with her to try to say goodbye. Xx

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spidereye · 04/08/2017 23:43

My dad died four weeks ago, I feel the same :( Struggling to cope

forfuckssakenet · 04/08/2017 23:51

My mum died a year ago. She was my best friend. I miss her every day but I always try to think of the amazing times we had and how truly wonderful she was. I also look for signs from her when I'm feeling particularly bad.
I'm so sorry for your loss Flowers

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