I cried because DH wouldn't bring me ice cream

[AHobbyaweek]

Today would be my mum's 1st wedding anniversary with my Step dad that she also with for 18 years. But she didn't make it and died in Oct last year.
Facebook showed me some photos today of one year ago and today has been tough.
DH wouldn't get me ice cream earlier and it made me cry. I would never normally do that.
It makes me feel spoilt.
I am usually so good at being normal, for some reason I just broke.

Oh love, of course you aren't spoilt! It's your mum, you are still missing her, of course you are xx

Lots of love to you (and your step dad) today

I wish there was an ice cream icon so u could bring that to you. Be kind to yourself and to your husband. Grieving is crap (I know because I'm doing it too at the mo) and we all behave and react differently. Obviously I have no idea what is going on in your and your husbands relationship but to you. The only thing I have learnt is to cut everybody - and especially yourself - some slack.

There is nothing wrong in our relationship, it was just a silly thing that made me cry. He is upset because he thought it was his fault.

I suppose I just needed to get it off my chest as I am struggling with talking about it to anyone in RL. Thank you for the flowers.