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Etiquette with neighbours

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mumnosbest · 23/07/2016 12:22

My elderly neighbour has died. We were fairly close as neighbours and have known each other for over 10yrs. I have spoken to her husband a couple of times over the last few days but hes understand busy with family and arrangements. I have a card and flowers to give but do I knock and possibly intrude when they need family time or leave it on his doorstep which feels a bit cowardly?

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scrivette · 23/07/2016 12:30

I would knock and hand over the flowers and say that you are only next door if they need anything/want to chat. They may ask you in so you can take their lead.

scrivette · 23/07/2016 12:31

I would knock and hand over the flowers and say that you are only next door if they need anything/want to chat. They may ask you in so you can take their lead.

echt · 24/07/2016 11:08

After the funeral, when much has died down is good time to pop around again. With soup.

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