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My uncle died today and it's hit me like a brick

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2ndSopranosRule · 13/05/2016 12:44

My dad just called me at work to tell me his brother - my uncle - died today. Well, they can't be sure it was today: they found him this morning. He was 95 and in reasonable health. Logically, I know that 95 is a wonderful age, but it's hit me that this was my dad's brother. Dad's sister died two years ago: he's the only one left. He's 86 and again, I know that's old, and I know I have to face that, but this is bringing this all home to me.

Dad's devastated. They were very close. Had some horrible fallings out, and lived several hundred miles away from each other, but spoke every other day.

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Goingtobeawesome · 13/05/2016 14:10

I'm so sorry for your loss 💐.

How is your dad doing?

2ndSopranosRule · 13/05/2016 14:18

Not good. DH phoned him at lunch and said he was very upset. I'm at work but I'm going to nip out in a bit and see how he's doing.

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Goingtobeawesome · 13/05/2016 14:20

can you take compassionate leave?

NoSpamPam · 13/05/2016 14:23

It's understandable l sorry 4 dat

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