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It's two years since I lost my lovely dad.

11 replies

katemiddletonsnudeheels · 08/05/2016 15:39

Just wanted to put that out there, no need to reply. I miss him so, so much.

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hidingwithwine · 08/05/2016 16:54

Oh God bless you, I can only imagine where your head and heart are. I'm coming up for 9mths and it's really starting to bite how much I miss him.

It's great that we have a place here to get things out. Are you doing anything special/significant today? Flowers

katemiddletonsnudeheels · 08/05/2016 16:58

I've decided not to go to the grave. He's not there. I hope that makes sense, it's such a beautiful day im going to walk and talk to him a bit (I often do, but not out loud !)

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ApocalypseSlough · 08/05/2016 16:58

That's a lovely way to be close to him. Flowers

katemiddletonsnudeheels · 08/05/2016 17:09

Thank you Flowers

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sophie052 · 09/05/2016 14:46

Hi I lost my dad at 21 I'm now 24 and I still can't get to grips with it my 2 brothers r dealing with it its the worst thing ever i'm sorry to hear about your dad do what ever helps you to cope Flowers

stopfuckingshoutingatme · 10/05/2016 22:06
Flowers Sending that - look after yourself X
Rowgtfc72 · 12/05/2016 21:07

Two yrs here this august. Feels like such a long time but also like only yesterday that I last saw him.
We had "do not stand at my grave and weep, I am not there, I do not sleep" at dads funeral. Mines not in a grave either, he's too big to be defined by such a small space!
Thinking of you Flowers

sunnydayinmay · 12/05/2016 21:10

It will he 8 years this year for me. I don't go to his grave either, but every time we have a beautiful sunset I think of him.

Its my wedding anniversary today, and I was looking at old photo. Still hard to believe he's gone.

Take care.Flowers

Jojoanna · 12/05/2016 23:13

14 months since my dad died and inwill never get over it

Falling270 · 12/05/2016 23:34

I've just posted in chat not realising there was a bereavement board saying its two years since I lost my beloved Grandad and I miss him desperately. You have my utmost sympathy. Flowers

ILoveAGoodBrusselSprout · 13/05/2016 22:26

It's 10 months for me. I'm dreading the first anniversary. There were things I'd planned to do to honour him, which I won't be able to do now (for temporary ill-health reasons).

We weren't close in recent years and I feel as though that makes it worse.

Love to all who are going through this.

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