We scattered DGran's ashes over the sea where she used to holiday (near extended family) and loved her "swims" (she gave up swimming at roughly 88, and agreed at 93 to have her second knee replacement done as she finally accepted she wouldn't swim again - the already replaced knee floated up on her and she needed to put one leg down on the ground to get out of the sea!).
Wider family stayed onshore on the pier, while a few of us went out in a small fishing boat. DGran's 3 DCs, her closest cousin locally, her eldest DGC (who was also a Goddaughter), my DB who hadn't made it home (from far side of the world) for her funeral, the DGGC who was present (there were 5 more but all overseas) etc - about 14 on the boat.
Apart from a laugh about getting the can open, needing a screwdriver, and DG's eldest DC and the DGGC working on that together (and then both getting a sprinkle of ashes as it popped open unexpectedly!), it was a somewhat funny and somewhat sad occasion. There were 2 "readings" said - one an actual bible reading and the other more a reflection. Eldest DC made a very short few words about her DM. Ashes were scattered and a few flowers thrown over as well. Then we said a decade of the rosary and had a piece of music played on a stereo that DGM loved.
Those onshore were close enough to hear some of what was said, but not all. But it was more of a happy sort of occasion than the funeral had been. Then we all went to a local pub for food, and back to the hotel where the DCs and their families wandered around the town (shopping, coffee etc) and then had dinner together, going home the following day.