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It is DH's birthday next week

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Yorkiegirl · 10/10/2006 21:29

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tribpot · 10/10/2006 21:30

Thinking of you, YG.

badkarma · 10/10/2006 21:31

Oh Yorkie {{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}

You can do soemthing special, celebrate his birth and his life.

TortUREoiseChamber · 10/10/2006 21:33

Thinking of you too YG.

Marina · 10/10/2006 21:35

YG, as soon as I saw the thread title and where it was, I thought it might be you. XXX

hulababy · 10/10/2006 21:37

Yorkiegirl

Have you planned to do anything in particular on the day?

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Yorkiegirl · 10/10/2006 21:38

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galaxy · 10/10/2006 21:39

Thinking of you YG

Pinkchampagne · 10/10/2006 21:39

Oh Yorkiegirl
I don't know what to say, but I am thinking of you.xxxx

tribpot · 10/10/2006 21:40

YG, can the Leeds ladies do anything? A gathering?

saggarmakersbottomknocker · 10/10/2006 21:41

Will be thinking of you YG.

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Yorkiegirl · 10/10/2006 21:41

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Pinkchampagne · 10/10/2006 21:42

That is a lovely idea, Yorkiegirl.

Gingerbear · 10/10/2006 21:44

it is sad, but I wanted to send a smiley, because he was such a special person to all of you xx
I will be thinking of you.

NastyNemo666 · 10/10/2006 21:47

Yorkie thinking of you...when my friends little girls birthday comes around they take balloons to her grave and have a convo etc then release the balloons. She also gets a cake and tends to buy a little statue or something to remember her DD for that year..obviously not been in the situation but it is something that helps her. There is a nice willow tree statue called angel of the heart or something similair.

BlueBeetle · 10/10/2006 21:54

Ooh yes - a helium balloon - and let it go so it goes up to him in heaven - that would be lovely !

Hugs xxx

hulababy · 10/10/2006 21:56

Balloons sound good. You could send a message attached to it.

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Yorkiegirl · 10/10/2006 23:08

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milge · 10/10/2006 23:20

Do a balloon each so that you and your dd's can put a personal message, rather than a collective one.

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Yorkiegirl · 10/10/2006 23:23

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2ndtime · 14/10/2006 08:37

I make a donation to the NSPCC on my DHs birthdays and Christmas. It seemed so wrong to not acknowlege his days with a gift when he wasnt here anymore. Is there a charity that was close to your DHs heart?
Also you dont need to have others around you when you release your balloon. Heaven is a big place and the balloon will get there if you let it go from your back garden.XX

VeniVidiVickiQV · 14/10/2006 08:46

yorkiegirl...

hauntymandy · 14/10/2006 08:52

You dont have to do the balloon at the cemetry do it in a special place somewhere you visited together. Why dont you and the girls go out for tea or bake a cake and have time to talk about him!!
You will cry lots but maybe you will laugh lots too, remembering the things you did together.
Big hugs!!!
(going to Whackey after 10.30 wed
)

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