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It's a year on Friday

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Amanda1 · 10/10/2006 09:31

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foundintranslation · 10/10/2006 09:35

Oh Amanda. I remember your threads from then.

Do not say 'it sounds silly when people have lost children...' - you have lost a child.

Thinking of you. You do whatever you need to do to get through.

auzi · 10/10/2006 11:56

amanda it dosent matter when you lose a child you are still going to go through the same fealing.
I have just have my 3rd eptopic and it just over a year since my 2nd the pain and the hurt i feel
is is really hard to explain but i am just takening every day as it comes and hope that it will ease as time goes by.
You take care and remember looking after yourself is really important .

Beauregard · 10/10/2006 12:03

for you Amanda1
It does not sound silly and of course you feel a huge sense of loss ,your daughter was a part of you.
Is there something you could do on the anniverary to mark her memory?I think that although it is extremely painful for you ,you shouldn't try and brush your feelings away.

anorak · 10/10/2006 12:04

You have to do whatever will work for you to help you with your grief. But it's good to spend some of the time thinking about what happened. It's all part of the grieving process.

I don't think you should ever apologise for feeling grief. It's different for each person and no one can tell you how you should feel.

BudaBeast · 10/10/2006 12:07

Oh Amanda - I was just thinkning about you the other day and wondering how you were doing. Can't believe it is a year.

Doing things for you sounds like a good idea. In fact whatever you want to do sounds like a good idea. If you wake up on the day and just want to stay in bed - well then that's fine too.

You are still grieving and you will for a long time.

Hugs

Megglevache · 10/10/2006 12:08

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Amanda1 · 13/10/2006 22:56

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pepperpots · 13/10/2006 23:06

Could not read this thread and not post. I remember your posts last year and wanted to let you know i am thinking of you xxx

Frizombie · 13/10/2006 23:06

{{{{Big Hugs}}}}} Amanda1, thinking of you tonight

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Amanda1 · 13/10/2006 23:09

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3k · 13/10/2006 23:18

Hope you are ok Amanda, as ok as you can be. Thinking of you, cant believe it has been a year.

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Amanda1 · 13/10/2006 23:20

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DastardlyDevilishDior · 13/10/2006 23:21

Amanda - I remember all your threads. for you.

QueenPeaHead · 13/10/2006 23:22

Amanda I remember your threads from last year. thinking of you.

CastsSpellsWitchySpells · 14/10/2006 07:50

I'm a touch late, but still thinking of you of Rebecca Alice. xx

BudaBeast · 14/10/2006 08:16

Thought of you and Rebecca a few times yesterday.

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Flamebat · 14/10/2006 12:47

Oh honey I think of you both so often. xxxxxxxxxxx

dejags · 14/10/2006 13:06

I too have thought you of recently Amanda.

To Rebecca Alice. Rest peacefully little one.

Dejags
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frenchconnection · 14/10/2006 13:17

was she a 20wk old baby? or did you lose her 20wks into your pregnancy? my friend unfortunately lost a child who was one yr old and also lost a baby at 21 weeks gestation, luckily she did cope with the latter.

jasnDISMemBERED · 15/10/2006 07:37

amanda. Sorry I'm so late. I've been thinking of you and Rebecca alot over the weekend.

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Amanda1 · 15/10/2006 21:53

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hertsnessex · 16/10/2006 07:46

Amanda1,

Coming upto my due date was worse than the actual day. now its past things are easing up.

thinking of you.

Cx

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