Hmm. No direct experience of losing a baby, but my two friends unfortunately suffered loss, one baby died of SIDS, my other friend's baby died five hours after birth. From wh
Is there any way of emailing them, and sending them as an attachment? Ask them for their email address too, email's always a good thing to use as well as facebook.
A few weeks, it's so soon, they're still getting over everything. A mother with a living, healthy baby would still sometimes want a bit of privacy to bond with their baby, but for a bereaved parent, a few weeks is both years but also so soon. They know they face a lifetime without their little baby, and they're still having to learn to face the reality of it- if they ever can face it.
I would suggest emailing them, but not puttin them up. I remember going round to one of my friends, about two months after her baby died, because she'd phoned up but was crying, and I went around to try and comfort her, and it was because she'd seen her SIL's baby, they'd sent her an email with pictures. Unfortunately, I've now moved, so can't be there, but it was so hard, is still hard. Pictures of your baby show how her baby should be developing, but isn't. When she sees the photos, she'll think 'that should be my baby. Why can't I have my baby with me?' A few weeks seems a long time, but for death, it's incredibly short.