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I know they don't have net in heaven, but

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mixedemotions123 · 26/03/2006 07:09

Thinking of you this mothers day mum,as always you are never far from thought.
With all my love always
Maryanne, Callum and Connor. The two wonderful grandsons that you never had the chance to hold.
xxxxx

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fransmom · 26/03/2006 22:03

hi mixedemotions 123, i just wanted to send you a hug as i know what you are going thru x (((((hugs))))

jambuttie · 26/03/2006 22:40

)))))))))HUGS((((((((((( to you mixed emotions sure your mum is looking down on you with pride

mixedemotions123 · 27/03/2006 12:36

Thanks both of you. Sad to know that you are going through the same emotions as me. Its 13 years since my mum died. she was only 56. I have never missed her more than when my first ds was born. Although she held him, I feel sure she was looking over him, he has meningitis when he was 3 weeks old, and I have always felt that she helped him to recover. Its true what they say, if something gives you comfort by believing in things, then do it. I like to think, as i am sure you do, that they do watch over us, especially to watch over the little ones.Smile

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fransmom · 27/03/2006 22:43

i'm sure they do. dp was working a late shift, dd was asleep in bed, i wasn't. so idecided to put up a border in bedroom, mainly to cover a hole (long story) Blush as there would be a flat inspection the following morning. do you think i could get the bl*y thing straight?Grin i said mom, i can't get this straight (i have a slight astigmatism in both eyes, i can tell if something isn't straight but not if it is) all i heard through the monitor was "nanny" well that really freaked me out. but after i started thinking about it, it was lovely. it made sense as well because several times she looks like she talking to thin air -proper talking2 (well for a baby). so don't any1think you're silly for thinking our mothers/parents watch over our littlies. x

mixedemotions123 · 28/03/2006 12:41

it is weird how things happen. On a slightly different note, when I went to my xh funeral, just as I got out of the car at the crem, on the radio came Brian Adams, which was our wedding song. It gives me comfort now, but sent me a bit wobbly at the time.

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