not posted on here for a while but hoping you all ahve a lovely christmas.just a bit bereft tonight xx

[Mavend]

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Hi Mave - it's a difficult time of the year isn't it :( All this trying to be happy and christmassy is such hard work. What plans do you have for Christmas?

PS: I think you should change your 'hover'

Hey Mavend, hope you are ok. I lost my father just over four years ago and it still hurts. I was not allowed to go to the funeral either. This is the first year I am spending Xmas with family and it feels strange.

I don't know your history but just wanted you to know that you are thought about and if you want to talk I am here and will be over Xmas

Unmunsnetty hugs xxzz

lol i deffo should be try to be christmassyxx going to in laws.have been popping in on here but not posting.thanks for reply.just got to me tonight but will be ok. xxx thanks hope you have a lovely christmas day.missing Himself.18 months in...used to post here loads but life got in the way xxx

Mave - we all have bad days but we all have good days as well in our own way. It is christmas eve tomorrow. Supposed to be fun so let's bring some mumsnet fun to it all. I am here all night so do just post if you want cheering up as much as I am able to help x

Thanks,can laugh,tis the only thing keeps me going,just a bit of an arse tonight xx

Mavend, I don't know your story but sending you love and a shed load of those unmumsnetty hugs xx

Sending you hugs.

Is that Mavis as was? I remember you. Sixth Christmas without DH here - you get used to it, but it doesn't stop you missing him.

We've made new traditions, and having family around helps. I hope you have a good time with the in-laws - at least they will understand why you may not be full of the joys of the season the whole time.