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What would you do?

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NoWittyName · 17/04/2011 22:25

Beautiful baby girl died four years ago today at the age of 15 months.

Have had calls or texts from all members of my family and various friends just sending their love and saying they're thinking of us and little lady.

However, none of husbands family have been in touch. Don't want long conversations, but some acknowledgment that today is her anniversary would be nice.

Should I mention something next time I see them, or just leave it?

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Sexonlegs · 18/04/2011 09:10

I am so sorry to read this; I cannot imagine what you have been through but didn't want to leave your post unanswered.

Could your dh perhaps say something?

everlong · 18/04/2011 09:21

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sh77 · 18/04/2011 18:39

So sorry for the loss of your daughter and for the lack of acknowledgement. It's my dd's second birthday today and my dh swept it under the carpet as if nothing had happened. None of his family called either but i didn't expect them to as they can't be even be arsed to visit her grave. we live in london and she is buried in a different city where dh's family live. i get so infuriated. sorry i don't have any advice - just wanted you to know i understand.

NoWittyName · 20/04/2011 19:28

Sorry to hear about your dd sh77. x
Thank you everyone else. x

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