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A BIG THANKYOU TO ALL AT MN

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Jenny1973 · 21/09/2005 22:46

Id just like to say how grateful & thankful to all that replied to my thread.(I LOST MY BABY AFTER AN AMNIO)
I can honestly say after nearly 8 yrs Ive accepted that my baby had an abnormality & not the fault of the hospital.
After reading on a site about anencephaly(from KateF) I found it very hard to look & read, but it finally sunk in & Ive accepted it.
Its made me feel so much better.
Thankyou mums who replied & to mumsnet. What a relief it feels.
Its also relieving to talk to people in simular situations, thats when you feel your life aint so bad after all, & theres plenty worse off than yourself.
Its also made me talk about it to my dh who feels that accepting whats happened is best instead of dwelling on the past.
My memory of my dd(Sharon) will always be there, & at times I will still feel the sorrow. But the bitterness going has got to be a great difference to how I've felt in the past.
Yours Thankfully
Jenny & My 2 wonderful kids & DH of course. xxx

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HuggyBear · 21/09/2005 23:04

awe bless you

aloha · 21/09/2005 23:21

That's a lovely post. Wishing you well for the future.

SherlockLGJ · 21/09/2005 23:23

MN

At its best.

God Bless

LGJ

anorak · 21/09/2005 23:23

jenny, so glad mn helped you. I hope you'll stick around and enjoy mn through the bad times and good times.

MarsLady · 21/09/2005 23:29

I'm glad that MN has been a help to you. That's a real encouragement.

Jenny1973 · 21/09/2005 23:45

I can honestly say since I found the site Im addicted.
My DH is always saying" RU on mumsnet darling. Then I hear a Sigh. hehe.He doesnt bother,but at times I think he thinks"some company she is"
But I have appreciated all the support everyone has given, & have found reassurance from other stories.
But at the moment my heart goes out to Eeyore-The poor Love must be devastated with losing her dh.

(((hugs all round)))

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anorak · 22/09/2005 00:15

What about eeyore? Please fill me in.

Jenny1973 · 22/09/2005 00:16

Im glad there are night owls like me on MN, thought I was the only 1 that came on here late on in the evening. Its the only time I get peace without distraction from kids AHHHHHHHH

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Jenny1973 · 22/09/2005 00:20

anorak-
If you read the site in "for Sale" or Deppression. YOu will see a thread from Meaow I think . Please Read ....Eeyores thread is on "for Sale" site

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Jenny1973 · 22/09/2005 00:21

Sorry anorak its on this site---

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Jenny1973 · 22/09/2005 00:23

its called "a thread for eeyore"

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anorak · 22/09/2005 00:24

Just read mieow's thread and posted on it.

OMG. What happens and people are not asking for support! Hope eeyore understands that people here care.

We are all mums and we all feel, even if we don't know the person.

Thanks for bringing it to a bigger level of attention.

Jenny1973 · 22/09/2005 00:26

Like I said this site is new 2 me,but has been gr8 help. You are all wonderful people xx

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