HELP! support needed, 2nd miscarrige!

[nurse47]

Hi, Just wanted some support and uplifting stories of ladies who have been in similar sitautions! I had my first MMC in nov 07, concieved again in feb 08 and had my beautifull DD who is now 2. We were pleased to start again and concived the first month, i was looking forward to this pregnancy as i was so nervous when pregnant with my DD. Well 2 weeks ago i started to spot and a scan showed at 6 weeks i only measured 4-5 weeks and no baby just a pregnancy sac, had a scan last week and the sac had grown but still no baby. I have a scan on monday which they are pretty sure will show again no baby the nurse in convinced its a blighted ovum. I cant believe its happened to me again! im so gutted i know i should be thankfull for my DD and i am i love her to bits but it still hurts, as i really wanted this baby too. I have to make the choice of a ERPC or natural (i had a ERPC last time). I just want to move on and start TTC again but feel so bad.
Im also worried about having a second ERPC to has anyone else had two and had no problems, just need someone to chat to, and share experiences.

Thanks, Julie

I can't really personally relate, I had one miscarriage when young and unplanned, then I contracted PID which was undiagnosed by docs along time as they thought it was IBS then when correctly diagnosed was given wrong medicines for 2 weeks so went untreated for a long time and was told that I had such severe internal scaring that pregnancy was only ever likely to be eptopic. 2 years later i fell pregnant with my ds. I don't dare try for another miracle and possible heart ache of eptopic.
I do know of people that have had more than one ERPC and have still had babies. In my opinion If you have the ERPC you can let go and move on sooner rather than waiting for nature. It really depends on emotionally what you feel is best for you.

My thoughts are with you.