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Life after death? Is there really?

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snowkitten · 13/07/2010 11:49

How come sometimes I feel my dh's presence yet he passed away in April? Is this just wishful thinking? Is it real? Is it part of grief? I dunno any more

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luciemule · 13/07/2010 12:48

I always wonder how people can so readily believe in a God yet put down people who say they believe in ghosts/spirits. There have been far more accounts of people having seen spirits than having seen God so why shouldn't it be your husband?

I believe that spirits stay around us for as long as you need them to and perhaps leave once they know you're okay to move on. (That's what I like to think anyway).

Me and DH have told each other to haunt each other when one of us passes away and do something obvious so that the other will know it's them. I know this sounds ridiculous but it's more comforting.

Sorry to hear about your the of your husband snow kitten - April isn't that long ago at all so you are bound to be missing him like mad.

snowkitten · 13/07/2010 12:52

lucie - I do believe in something. Just not sure what. A book fell of my bedside shelf a couple of weeks ago - one about a good Mummy (Mother's Day gift years ago). I am moving house to be near my family with the dc's. Maybe it was his way of telling me he approved . Dunno. I hope so.

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luciemule · 13/07/2010 12:54

was supposed to 'loss of your husband'.

Perhaps that wasa message then. He would be pleased I'm sure to know you're being looked after by family

neverenoughMEtime · 13/07/2010 13:30

So sorry to hear you lost your DH snowkitten. I would love to know the answer to your question too.
I think it was a sign from your DH. How lovely and comforting for you.

Hope you and DC are ok, good luck with the move.

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