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Stammering

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evesmama · 15/08/2005 10:07

my dd is 2yrs almost 4 months and has always been very good with her speech and has an excellent range of vocabulary for her age..but over the last two or three weeks, she has started to stammer when she asks a question
mainly when she's saying "I" or "what", then after a while she sometimes says "oh, i forgot"
it seems to bother her and it really bothers me, but health visitor said to totally ignore it!! as its just her trying to get everything out and her mouth wont work fast enough...but isnt that what stammering is anyway?
am very sad for her and would love any advice on how to help her.

TIA

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flamesparrow · 15/08/2005 10:13

I did this as a child - the whole brain going faster than mouth thing.

I was taught to pause if it started happening, take a few deep breaths, and then start again - but I was about 5 at the time and easier to teach to do that!

The other thing that helped was patience... Try not to help out, and finish what she's trying to say so that she doesn't have to say so much - the frustration of that normally made me worse.

I know its not much help, but all I've got

xxx

evesmama · 15/08/2005 20:46

thanks FlameSparrow

my friends been over today with her DS(theres only two weeks between them)and she said he did it too and she was told to just ignore it and it would stop..it did!..i just hope it does with Eve soon too

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mogwai · 16/08/2005 08:17

often coincides with a vocabulary spurt. Have you noticed this?

Don't finish her sentences, just stay relaxed, it's probably not a stammer. If it persists, phone the local speech therapy dept and have her checked out

katierocket · 16/08/2005 08:31

very very common, don't worry about it, it will right itself. Don't try and finish her sentences for her, just wait for her to get it out. If she gives and says "I forget", just say something like "did you darling? oh well, not to worry".

evesmama · 16/08/2005 12:03

well i 'was' saying to her when she was having trouble..relax darling..ake a deep breath and start again..but that didnt seem to work.
have been trying to 'ingnore' it..seems a little better today..but she does seem to have 'come on' so much since we moved, i think it may all be linked?

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mogwai · 16/08/2005 17:02

since you moved? Since you moved house you mean?

It's not uncommon for a change in the usual routine to set this kind of thing off, but I still think it will probably right itself. Give it another month and if it doesn't settle, get her referred.

In all authorities I've worked, stammering, or possible stammering is seen priority, so you may not have to wait

evesmama · 16/08/2005 20:51

yes we moved house/area
she seems to have settled very well apart from this!

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evesmama · 19/08/2005 20:38

dd's speech has more or less gone back to normal over last two days[pheew]
she did regress tonight at tesco when worker went past with big noisy industrial hoover but overall..much better

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mogwai · 19/08/2005 20:44

oh good, that must put your mind at rest. Hope it all works out ok for you

evesmama · 19/08/2005 20:57

thankyo
she has quite happily shouted , sang and demanded today..with no stammering!...great!

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Jo0302 · 25/08/2005 15:15

Hi. My daughter had exactly the same thing, and I was very concerned about it. I took her to see the doctor and the health visitor and they just said to ignore it, but it didn't go away for quite some time. I eventually spoke to one of my mum's relatives who used to be a child specialist, and she did say to ignore it as it brings it to the child's attention more if you comment on it all the time. She also said that it's because there's so many words going round in their brain at this age, that they know what they want to say, but just can't get it out quick enough. She told me to simply slow down my speaking to her and, when replying if the child starts to stutter again, then stop her and tell her to slow down. My daughter stopped stuttering after about 3 weeks and she's fine now. Hope this helps.

kittiebiddy · 26/08/2005 11:13

My 2 yr old nephew also did this, as if he couldn't get the words out fast enough,so he would stammer. He seemed to go through times when it would get much worse, then he'd be fine, it did seem to bother him & he'd stop what he was saying.
He's now almost 3 & the stammer is more or less away, like most kids he gets stuck now and again, but overall he's fine.

Good luck

Twiglett · 26/08/2005 11:16

you MUST totally ignore it. You MUST

Do not finish her words, do not look impatient. Just wait till she gets it out.

If you don't then you risk giving her a complex.

Stammering is a fairly normal stage. It seems to occur when their brain is just working quicker than their mouths. Ignore it and it will go away, pay attention and you risk making it far far worse.

DS did it and doesn't now if it helps

StevenBSA · 28/04/2011 14:01

Hello, I work at the British Stammering Association and was a bit concerned about some of the comments above, so thought I should write something.

As has been said, it is quite common for children to experience difficulties with their speech- around 5% of children under the age of 5 will do so. Around the age of 2-3 is when most children start to stammer, although it can develop at a later age.

In the majority of cases, they will naturally outgrow it. However, we do not advise that parents leave it to correct itself, as some of the posts above have said, as up to a quarter of children are at risk of developing chronic stammering which may persist into adulthood without intervention during the pre-school years.

Therefore, we advise anyone concerned about their child's stammer to get their child assessed by a Speech and Language Therapist as early as possible. It's never too early to act. By getting in touch with the British Stammering Association, we can give you direct contact details of your local NHS therapy service where you can refer yourself without having to go through your GP.

If you are concerned, phone our helpline (local rate) on 0845 603 2001 or email [email protected].

Stammering can affect children in lots of different ways -some will block at the start of sentences, some midway, and others at the end. Some will repeat sounds.

The exact causes of stammering are not yet fully known, but new research is suggesting that it might be genetic. There is no evidence that parents cause stammering, so don't blame yourselves.

Please see this link for parents of under 5's from our website, which gives tips on what to do in the home to support your child: www.stammering.org/under5.html

And here is a link for older children: www.stammering.org/parents_info.html

For more information about stammering in general see our website www.stammering.org.

I hope this helps
Steven
British Stammering Association

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