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Boy v. Dog

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laraeo · 15/06/2010 21:28

DS is 2.3yo. Dog is 13 and a smallish (6kg) doxie. We've been in the process of moving for about 2 months (from UK back to US). First traveling for 3 weeks visiting family, then staying with friends and hotels until we finally moved into a house. We're still waiting on our household goods so have very little with us - really just a few toys for DS. The internet and tv just got hooked up today. Point is, I know things have been difficult for both boy and dog with all the changes taking place. I also know that DS is only 2. However, I need some tips/advice on what to do when DS, for no reason, runs up to DDog and starts pulling his tail/ears/fur. Up until now, DDog has been very patient with DS but I think DDog is starting to get fed up. DS gets lots of play time at various playgrounds and a local splash park (we're in the desert and it's HOT). He gets lots of attention from me - perhaps too much. We've tried the "naughty corner" when DS misbehaves with DDog but I'm not convinced he understands what he's doing wrong or why he's being hustled into a corner. I find myself shouting at him which I hate doing. DS also has virtually no speech (although he understands everything and his hearing's fine) which frustrates everyone and I'm in the process of getting him seen for a 2 year check and registered for a creche (he went when we lived in the UK and really enjoyed it). I think a lot of his behavior stems from the whole move/upheaval of his life but I need some tips on how to deal with him and the DDog at least until things settle down and we get into a routine. I do monitor their time together and keeping DDog in a bedroom for the day (it's an open floor plan house) doesn't seem fair to the DDog.

I hate moving.

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Harimo · 16/06/2010 04:53

honestly... i think this is what 2yo boys do.

i have a 2yo ds and a 7yo ddog and the boy is constantly pulling, grabbing, climbing on the dog.

i would also question if dogs 'get fed up'.. they aren't humans and don't think like we do... i get upset for ddog sometimes, but then i remember that ddog could move away.. fact is, he likes to be close to ds (and dd, who is 10mo and who likes to poke his eyes and pull his ears!!)

I would consider getting your dog a cage (crate?) - I used one with my ddog when he was a puppy when my DSDs were young. It gave him somewhere to go when he was tired and didn't want the attention. It would also give him a 'home from home' - some consistency for the dog would be good.

I'm guessing your DS has just turned 2 (you mention a 2Y check)... I hate to say it, but this could simply be the terrible twos kicking in.. My DS (was two in May) went from a lovely little fella to a monster with an opinion on EVERYTHING

Sorry for lack of punctuation - am feeding dd at the same time.

HM

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