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My 4yr old and 6 yr old have just drawn on the bloody living room walls

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travellingwilbury · 03/06/2010 19:10

They have never done this before , and it isn't even anywhere discreet . It is right above the friggin sofa .

Now before I sell them on ebay , or lock them in a cupboard , please give me a suitable punishment .

Can't get it off either .

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BertieBotts · 03/06/2010 19:11

Oh no, how annoying. If it's felt tip try baby wipes/make up remover. If it's biro, spray it now really close with hairspray and then scrub.

(These both assuming it's paint on the walls and not wallpaper)

SilveryMoon · 03/06/2010 19:11

OMG. My 2yo did this not so long ago all over my bedroom wall. I couldn't get it off either so will have to re-paint.

Don't know what punishment would be suitable. When my ds1 did this I sent him to his room, for his own safety!

belgo · 03/06/2010 19:12

Confiscate their pencils etc for a couple of days and give them a good talking to.

We've painted a section of wall with blackboard paint so they can scribble all they like; or chalk on the terrace.

travellingwilbury · 03/06/2010 19:13

It is crayon , I have just realised .

What are the chances of getting it off ?

They are in the bath now , the eldest is very very sorry and the youngest is making the right noises but actually doesn't seem to give a shite .

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belgo · 03/06/2010 19:14

At age four they can say sorry but they don't seem to mean it at this age. By age six they really seem to feel sorry; it's not just a word.

travellingwilbury · 03/06/2010 19:15

Why on earth would a 6yr old (alright I know he is not a grown up but even still) suddenly think this was an ok thing to do after not doing anything of the sort all this time .

Buggery bugger !

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minipie · 03/06/2010 19:15

Try rubbing it out - might lift the colour off

belgo · 03/06/2010 19:16

because it seemed fun at the time, that's why.

They dont; think through to the consequences.

minipie · 03/06/2010 19:16

(I mean with a pencil eraser)

belgo · 03/06/2010 19:17

My dd1 was about three when she took out her hair slide and used it to scratch a drawing on the varnished wardrobe. I was angry, and just a bit impressed at her imagination.

red37 · 03/06/2010 19:17

OMG, will you have to re decorate?, my ds aged 4 has just soaked the whole bathroom floor, managed to soak it up with the vax..I sent him to bed

he is fast asleep now

BertieBotts · 03/06/2010 19:19

Oh, crayon as in wax crayon? If so, put newspaper/greaseproof paper over it and iron it, then press as hard as you can. It should melt the wax and transfer it to the paper.

travellingwilbury · 03/06/2010 19:20

Belgo , that did raise a smile , I t is the most obvious uncomplicated answer and def the right one I am sure .

I have said they are not going to the skate park tomorrow as a punishment but is it pointless carrying over punishment to the next day ? I generally like to get things done , dusted and out the way . But then they are not normally such buggers .

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belgo · 03/06/2010 19:24

I would still take them to the skate park; I don't think canceling outings is effective at this age as a punishment because it will just seem unfair to them.

And the skate park will help use up their energy and keep them out of mischief!

Like I said, confiscate crayons, as then the punishment relates directly to the crime.

travellingwilbury · 03/06/2010 19:24

minipie , thankyou The eraser seems to be working . I wouldn't have even tried it on crayon .

They are now offering up there savings to pay for new paint . I am weakening on the really cross front . Just glad they are in the bathroom and can't see me .

Early night and glass of wine I reckon .

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travellingwilbury · 03/06/2010 19:27

I think you are right belgo , I don't really like the idea of still punishing them tomorrow for today . Especially now I think it is going to all come off .

Is it really bad to want to leave it there until they go to bed so they don't know if I am going to use their pocket money for paint
I won't really do this but the evil side of me is tempted .

Must remember they are 4 and 6 and not teenagers .

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belgo · 03/06/2010 19:30

enjoy your wine

D0G · 03/06/2010 19:32

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slouchingtowardswaitrose · 03/06/2010 19:34

Oh for goodness sake.

Get a Magic Eraser. It will come straight off in a matter of seconds.

Make them help. Speak to them about never doing it again. Ever drawing on walls, toys, furniture, whatever again results in drawing things going away for a day.

Give them a giant blackboard. You can buy static-cling blackboard on a roll now.

Don't punish them. They know they did wrong. Tell them what will happen if they do it again. That's enough.

minipie · 04/06/2010 17:58

"They are now offering up there savings to pay for new paint"

Aw bless.

Glad the eraser works.

Agree with slouching - best punishment is taking away drawing stuff.

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