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How to stop brothers fighting !!

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ruth6692 · 12/05/2010 13:49

I'm looking for help on how to stop my 13 and 11 ds's to stop fighting they play together all the time sometimes getting on great other times which feels like most of the time time they fight non stop not physically but the eldest bully's the youngest talking to him like he's the lowest of the low the other is such a trouble maker loves to be difficult yet on the other hand is treated bad by his brother but is very competitive and hates to lose . I'm just so fed up of it but don't know how to change them from behaving like this they need a team building exercise i think !!! But the whole house is effected by their constant bickering. We have a 2 yr old ds who just wonders what is going on but then also tries to imitate them. Don't get me wrong they are not complete brat's and thats what is so upsetting because they are great lads just not to each other . So i'm looking for any tips or advice to ease the tension !!!! Thanks

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KiddingAnxiously · 12/05/2010 16:05

When my sister and I fought we were separated. "If you can't play nicely, you can't play at all" still rings in my ears to this day.

When anything started we were put into different boring spaces until we agreed to get along. Might have taken a few times but it worked.

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