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hate the way people stare when dd misbehaves

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Sunshine78 · 25/04/2010 11:44

Just need to get this off my chest. DD 3.5 has a hearing problem which is currently being investigated as not sure all down to glue ear which has been corrected with grommets. Due to bad hearing when out and about she can become quite out of control and hyper as her way of coping with feeling scared (as am sure most would be if couldn't hear properly) was in the shop today and she just went totally hyper on me and as she couldn't hear is really hard to ciontrol her as unless she is facing me I cant communicte with her. ended up leaving the shop nearly in tears from all the looks/tuts I got - 1 woman actually asked if I could control her. its 2 hours later still feel like crying I cant keep her locked up at home but how can I control her if she is scared and I have restricted ways of communicating with her?

Feel better now for just getting it out of my system!

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gothicmama · 25/04/2010 11:56

learn to give your daughter a hug or a back rub when she is scared get down to her level and reassure her explain to her what is happenning before you go out and give her a signal (she will probable tell you one) so you can know she is feeling scared.
As for other people I always explain to my child that they are looking cos they are rude and not to let it bother him,
or in particluar bad case if you are making a bad situation worse pelase get on with your life

gothicmama · 25/04/2010 11:58

forgot to say DS has hearing problems too. last line should be in a bad case of someone looking and commenting dh told them @you are making a bead situation worse please get on with your life'

zapostrophe · 25/04/2010 17:03

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Ivykaty44 · 25/04/2010 22:24

xxx

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