I posted a while back about my dd (4). She has been at nursery since last August and doesn't talk at all there. She did a tiny bit at the beginning, then stopped after Christmas.
The nursery say she is getting a bit better - she will almost join in with actions for songs, and she looks more animated. The teacher thinks it is just shyness, and nothing needs to be done. They say if she is still not talking by Christmas, then they will start to worry (she starts school next year).
The problem is that she is getting worse everywhere else. She only talks to myself and ds. SHe doesn't talk to dh, or any other relatives or adults that she has known all her life. She has 2 girls who are her friends, and she talks to them. But she hasn't seen them all summer holidays and I am worried that when she sees them again she will not talk to them either.
I was quite happy with the wait and see approach, but, as yuo can understand, dh would like to be able to have a conversation with her. And as things seem to be getting worse I am a bit concerned there is more of a problem than we first thought.
How do we go about getting help? Through the school, or GP?