ds is 2.1 and doesn't say a lot at the moment which I'm sure leads to some of the above with his frustrations. Tell me for the sake of my sanity that your ds/dd went through similar and that it's just a phase, that there is light at the end of the tunnel! He seems content to get by with these methods rather than talking, which he can do.He understands all we say to him pretty much and can follow fairly detailed instructions, but goes round the house talking like a bloomin' ape man! Also, what methods did you use when they were grunting and growling. Am I just being a bit weak and should be constantly ignoring the grunting?