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Help - 2 year old biting his nails

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SouthernB · 04/03/2010 12:53

My DS aged 2 started biting his nails in December, and has not stopped since.

I did all the wrong things at first- painted his nails with Stop & Grow, which helped only for a day or so, told him off and constantly pulled his hands out of his mounth in an effort to stop the biting.

Worse still, I'm convinced that the fighting between myself and DH (also in December - we nearly split up) caused it, so seeing him biting his nails is a constant reminder of the worst December of my life and the guilt I feel for causing my precious little one such stress makes me hate myself.

After talking to a psycologist and paed, we have since January completely ignored the habit, and try at all times to keep his hands busy with toys, clay and when we're in the car encouraging him to hold on to his carseat. The biting is a lot less now, but DS still bites like crazy every so often (esp after being told off).

I need to hear from someone who went through this with their child - how long did the problem last and how did it eventually end.

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lovechoc · 04/03/2010 13:08

Sorry to hear of your problems from the past but hopefully your DS will grow out of it??

I am a nail biter myself at the age of 27, hoping to try hypnotherapy to treat this as I have tried everything else. My nail-biting started as a child and I still believe it's a nervous thing for me (different for other people depending on their life circumstances).

Sorry I can't offer any constructive help for your DS. I just hope he will grow out of it and it's also something that worries me too, as my DS is nearly 3yo and I hope he doesn't end up being a nail-biter like myself. I try not to do it in front of him, but can't always stop myself!

SouthernB · 04/03/2010 13:32

Thanks for the reply, and good luck to you too.

What age did you start biting, and can you link it to a specific incident during childhood (If I may be so nosy).

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lovechoc · 04/03/2010 13:36

thanks. I can't remember the exact age but I'm sure it was around the time of starting primary school. I also wish I knew exactly what caused it but I've no idea. If I knew, it may be easier to work out and find a solution, which may in turn help me to stop biting. It's a difficult one. I do have constant difficulties getting along with my own mother, and this may have something to do with it, but I can't be 100% sure...
There were times where I did stop biting completely, grew really long nails but it took a lot of focus not to bite/chew. It looks so disgusting aswell - horrid horrid habit

lovechoc · 04/03/2010 13:38

I hope someone can come along soon with some real advice for your current situation though.

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