He is delightful most of the time, but can be very difficult when he doesn't get his own way. He is big and heavy now, and his father does occasionally carry him up to his room, but this is not something that can go on much longer. But yelling, screaming, out of control temper, throwing things at me, and his father and brother. Generally quite frightening. I know I have not always kept my temper, have had dreadful problems with DH not working due to what turned out to be depression, so being reluctant sole breadwinner and then being bullied at work. This all contributes, but things are much better now and yet he still revs up and lets rip at slightest thing. Does anyone have any really good management suggestions?