My 4 yr old ds has a friend of the same age. We regularly meet up and both boys are often getting into mischief. e.g when we have been to the soft play place they have gone in the toilets and covered themselves in soap, pinched icecreams from the fridge, climbed on things they shouldn't and once or twice upset other kids pretending to shoot them and being generally over excitable. I thought this was within normal range for boys. My ds friend goes to speech therapy and hasn't hit it off with the lady there from the start (friend tells me she thinks she doesn't have children of her own) He does not want to cooperate or concentrate on whats she's trying to do with him and last week she said she wanted him checking out as she thought he had behaviour problems. Obviously his mum is shocked and upset but it set me thinking that if he has a problem then my son must aswell! Both of them sleep fine from 6:30 at night so i can't imagine that it's hyperactivity but they don't seem to listen to us much. ds friends mum is also concerned that he walks on tiptoe alot of the time. Does anyone have any advice?