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Toddler slapping parents aaarrrrggghh

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Annasboy · 28/12/2009 20:03

Hi, we are experiencing bad behaviour from our son Victor who is just 2yo. He has a habit of coming up to us an dslapping us in the face several times a day. We have tried telling him off but to no avail (what so ever)! Please help.
Could this be copy behaviour from the childminders dominant 2 & 1/2 yo?
Thankyou Anna

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Annasboy · 28/12/2009 20:05

Hi, we are experiencing bad behaviour from our son Victor who is just 2yo. He has a habit of coming up to us an dslapping us in the face several times a day. We have tried telling him off but to no avail (what so ever)! Please help.
Could this be copy behaviour from the childminders dominant 2 & 1/2 yo?
Thankyou Anna

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Onlyaphase · 28/12/2009 20:12

To be honest I think slapping is just a stage some toddlers go through. My DD has done this in the past, and it gets such a reaction from us that she then tries to do it again and again

What we have found works best is total distraction - as soon as your son starts this behaviour just say no, move away and start doing something else more interesting - like blowing bubbles or something.

At this age I doubt he is doing this to be hurtful, he is just doing it because he is bored and knows it gets attention and a reaction from you.

tispity · 28/12/2009 20:14

tbh it could go on for a few years more if you are unlucky. everytime i log onto the Internet my son comes over and thumps me saying 'MUMSNET' (true story, honestly).

sabinar · 30/12/2009 22:37

I'm having exactly the same thing with my almost 2yo at the moment. He'll slap me when he's frustrated with me and - lucky me, he'll also slap me when he's frustrated with himself or someone else! The bright side is that he's not slapping anyone else, yet! I'm doing a mixture of trying to distract him and also trying to encourage him to talk about what's frustrating him - not sure how ready he is for that kind of talking yet but figure it's worth shot.

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