Particularly interested in alternatives to the "naughty step" which isn't my cup of tea. I do believe in setting boundaries but am struggling to put the theory into practice! For example, dd refuses to clean teeth unless randomly she decides she wants to clean teeth today. dp feels we should be putting our foot down a little more whereas i feel we're in the business of a more long term "this is how we do things" education that shouldn't necessarily expect immediate results. Obviously things like getting in car seat, not running into road, no argument. But what about everything else? Bit confused...