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My 10 yr old driving me bloody mad with sulks about his homework - AAARRRGGGH - advice on how to handle please!

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CantThinkofFunnyName · 07/10/2009 18:06

Ok - deep breath. DS (10), yr 6 is academically average. Sometimes does his homework no problem, but when he doesn't want to do it - for whatever reason - he strops like a true Kevin/Perry teenager, gives me lots of "for gods sakes" and usually "we haven't even learned this at school"!

Even if they haven't learned exactly how to do something in school, the instructions are usually on the piece of paper but he just decides in his own mind that he can't - or won't do it.

Does anyone else have this kind of problem with their DCs? If so, how do you handle them? I range from trying to speak with reason, assist etc to how I reacted just now of "get up to you room, out of my sight, do not put on your TV and do not come back down here until you have changed your attitude"

He has just come back down and apologised and is now doing his homework but the tutting and tears is driving me up the wall again!!

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sugardumpling · 12/10/2009 17:02

Have this with my DS too, must be the age know what you mean by Kevin and Perry!
My DS's main problem is just laziness, he is doing very well in school though, but just wants to do other things when he comes home. I basically ban all the other things until he does he's homework, he soon gets the message. Obviously I still get the "I hate you" but I just ignore and he soon gets over it

RubysReturn · 12/10/2009 17:06

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sugardumpling · 12/10/2009 17:15

like that idea RubysReturn think I might try that one

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mollyroger · 12/10/2009 17:33

just be grateful you don't have to scribe it for your child, as I have to (dyslexia and fine motor issues)
Consequently, we have an hour of whinging and complaining and tears, followed by an hour of him finally settling down to do reaearch, followed by an hour of him dictating the work to me, followed by an hour of me, having to write it out neatly (no mean feat as my writing is fairly shocking too!)
Night after night after night...

We used to type/print it out, but it is costing us a fortune in printing ink.

Still, it is giving me a wonderful education Go on, ask me about photosynthesis.....

CantThinkofFunnyName · 12/10/2009 17:48

This is great - thanks everyone so much. RubysReturn - your post really made me laugh - out loud in fact - so my DS said "what's so funny". I daren't tell him as I'm going to use that!!!!

It certainly seems that we all go through similar issues and try all the same tactics in dealing with it

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nighbynight · 12/10/2009 21:49

lol at rubys letter. Think I will do that too!

nighbynight · 12/10/2009 21:49

but my sons might hand it in. they are shameless.

ll31 · 14/10/2009 17:02

great think about primary in Ireland - no homework at weekends! Big relief!

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