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The worst shopping trip ever - buggy escapee unmanageable Advice please

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SebbysMum · 30/06/2009 10:33

18 month old DS can now get out of buggy without any problem. Once out he is almost impossible to put back in against his will and in any case just gets out again. He's been doing this on shopping trips/walks and nursery pick up for a week or two. Happy for him to walk and help when he can and he has reins but I am simply unable to shop for food, carry heavy bags, push buggy, manage toddler having a tantrum and walk down the very steep hill home at the same time.

Just had a horrible horrible shopping experience. I don't think I've ever felt so close to smacking him - though I didn't. I almost gave up, tempted to leave the shopping in basket and run (tempted to leave the toddler too).

Please advise, those with older kids. What can I do to manage him. He is too strong and capable to restrain in the buggy but a bit too young to be able to manage walking around the shops without being distracted by every little thing and periodically sitting down etc. I can't reason with him as you would an older child.

BTW - he's not generally naughty or difficult to manage, just a normal child. i suppose really what I'm asking is what tricks are available to control him while out.

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thrifty · 30/06/2009 17:57

aha,i see the thread has moved on since i started tea

however, as he escapes the harness you could use the duct tape to join the harness above the front clip,so you have to take it over his head (obviously not too tight!) iyswim.

MrsBadger · 30/06/2009 18:15

yy reins & d-rings

but best of all, I'm afraid, is a friend of the same age and a trolley with a double seat...

SebbysMum · 02/07/2009 14:08

Thanks very much for all the tips but especially to the person who suggested crossing the buggy straps over his chest. I'm sure he'll find a way around this soon enough but for now it seems to be holding him in.

Good old mumsnet...

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JoyS · 02/07/2009 15:39

If you can manage it I would try to find a comfortable carrier, like an ergo or structured backpack and a wheeled shopping trolley. Carry him to shops, let him walk or sit in the store trolley at shops, carry him home with shopping in trolley.

Also Ocado is fabulous.

DidEinsteinsMum · 02/07/2009 15:48

The knee works as does folding them in half (very gentle. Tickle first so bend over then grap in this position and quick transfer if your quick they're stuck before they realise)
We still cross the straps. all the buggies we've had (and we've had 4 in 4 year as ds is rough with them) have top straps that will unclip, so we unclip and switch which hinders progress. The double up harness works.
Fluffy's idea of hunting cards and activities can work as does a snack pot which is shoved into little mit at start of trip (carrot sticks, raisins what ever is small and picky and takes a lot of eating) works plus has the benefit of keeping mouth busy so less risk of the shouting that can happily accompany shopping trips with LOs.

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