my ds (4) threw a chair on the floor and i asked him to pick it up. i tried to make a joke of it and he was laughing and eventually he picked it up. then he got moody again and started banging the chair for no reason i told him to stop (i was gettin the hump by now but not shouting or anythin) he carried on banging it so i put him in his room
he trashed his room throwing everythin on the floor. i warned him that anythin he throws i will put in a bin bag which i did. (he has done this before- not as much trashing though, and i have put it in bin bag before which by this point he usually calms down)
he then just flipped and started throwing big heavy things at me, hitting me with the legs of his work bench, he was in a proper rage. i started crying as he had never been like this before. i tried holding him to restrain him but he bit me on the arm, i tried holding him against me in a cuddle to calm him down but he wouldn't calm down. i then had no choice but to leave him to it he was just throwing himself all over the floor making angry noises.
it was quite terrifying to watch. this whole thing lasted about half hour. he then calmed down on my lap and we cuddled and he appologised.
i tried talking to him and asking him what had made him angry but he didn't know.
he had another tantrum on saturday. but before this he had been perfect for months. nothing in his home life has changed as far as i know and i dont know what to do or how to handle this
i have 2 bin bags full of toys in my room which he wont get back just yet. he woke up just a perfect child again. i told him that tonight we will have a little talk about last night and talk about what things make him annoyed and angry