Iam at a loss what to do our whole day is spent with her whinging,moaning and tantruming from gettin up to going to bed. So far this morning it took her 20 minutes to have a wee and wash her hands because she wanted me to do it for her, 20 minutes screaming because she didnt want toast, and a massive tantrum in which she hit me because she didnt want fresh orange juice - i have now put her in her room for timeout which i can hear her throwing things around in it. This is my average day now, please tell me its just a phase because i feel like walking out the door!