Baby is 5 weeks old and dd1 is focussing all her difficult behaviour on me - throwing food around, being deliberately rough, cannoning into my tummy on purpose (I've had a C/S), arguing the toss about EVERYTHING (bed, toothbrushing, clothes, shoes). DD2 is a placid sort but is feeding all the time and won't really settle with anyone but me so is glued to me a lot of the time and doesn't yet "go down" in the evening. I feel that I'm parenting in a totally negative way, telling dd1 what she shouldn't be doing and permanently angry with her because most of her wind-ups are bang on target. Yet when I try to be patient (which I do about 90% of the time) her behaviour gets worse and worse until I end up using more traditional tactics. I have ended up smacking her twice in two days and really don't feel good about it.....please tell me it gets better!