My arms are aching from holding him down. My 20 month year odl son has had one hell of what I can only describe as a tantrum. I'm so worried about him & so is dh. He was waiting for his last feed before bed & moaning a bit so I went into his room to reassure him. He started to cry so I picked him up but the more I cuddled & sang to him, the harder he screamed & writhed. I got the hint & put him gently down. He grabbed his pacci & reached for his blanket, which he put over his head. My ds has a temper, I know, but this kind of behavior terrifies me & I wonder if he hates me or if there's something wrong with him. Paed says not, just "strong willed" but now I am truly frightened. Please help me.