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CAN walk but doesn't want to let go - at 13 months

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soon2befamilyof4 · 11/02/2009 17:06

I know that it is nothing to worry about if a child isn't walking at 13 months (nearly 14) BUT she has been walking round the furniture/with push along toys since she was 6 months old! She is SO sturdy, isn't actually getting any support from the furniture, but seems to be a phycologiclal thing that she needs to hold on to. Today, she picked up a big, heavy toy, which she seemed to think was helping her and walked and walked across the room. The toy was not touching the floor, and probably making it so much harder for her to walk as it was heavy. But she wouldn't walk without it. She will walk holding your hands, and not using it for support but won't let go. If you try and put her down without something to hold onto, she just sits on the floor. Watching her today was proof that she CAN walk if she wants to, but how do you convince a baby that they don't need to hold on anymore? She can already climb the stairs, get on and off the sofa, climb out of a cot/bath/playpen etc. I am heavily pregnant and would just be so nice not to have to always carry her! And she gets very frustrated too and I am sure she would be happier when walking. She is already very fast - so not worried about having to run round after her when she is walking.

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soon2befamilyof4 · 11/02/2009 17:06

Oh and she can get from sitting to standing without holding on or pulling herself up.

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soon2befamilyof4 · 11/02/2009 20:10

Bump

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WhatFreshHellIsThis · 11/02/2009 20:13

haven't had this experience, but I'm pretty sure she'll get there in her own time - I know how hard it is when they need carrying all the time and you're pg, but maybe she's feeling a bit insecure about you being pg and this is a symptom?

sorry, not sure what to advise but didn't want you to ho unanswered.

ShowOfHands · 11/02/2009 20:13

She'll just do it. DD was exactly like this. Very mobile, very early but liked to hold on when walking. She used to carry a toy across the room with her too but no toy, no walk. It's developmental, they do it in their own time. Don't make a thing of it, call her over to you, point at something she may want on the other side of the room etc and it'll click. It's just confidence.

Somebody suggested tumble tots/soft play type stuff to encourage confidence but she didn't need it. It's a thought though.

Ispy · 11/02/2009 20:16

Not much help I'm afraid but she'll do it when she's ready

soon2befamilyof4 · 11/02/2009 20:24

Thanks for the replies!

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