Need advice, or just reassurance here. My DS1, going to be 4 in May and is still quite frequently wetting his pants/trousers during the day.
And at night, we put a nappy on him when he's fallen asleep.
He's actually been 'potty trained' since 2yrs, and is/was always really good. However, there have been setbacks at times- birth of DS2, moving house, etc etc...
In September I went back to work fulltime, and DH decided to stay at home and be the SAHD. It works really well, and the children seem happy and content,...
But, the accidents all happen during the week, sometime after preschool and midafternoon-ish. I don't know if perhaps he's started doing it because he gets too little attention at school (he's quite well-behaved/quiet, and perhaps takes up less of the teacher's time than louder kids?) or he is too shy to ask, or maybe he isn't happy that I've gone back to work? Or maybe it's my husband's reaction to his more and more frequent accidents (he tends to show dissatisfaction, rather than ignoring- although he does praise a LOT when DS1 takes himself off to the loo or asks to go) ??? I don't know.
Weird thing is, there are never any accidents at the weekends. Now this could be because we are busier, and doing stuff as a family, therefore giving loads of attention to the boys etc etc... and also, he never has accidents when we are out. Only at home. Or school.
Writing this down, it makes me think there is something to it. Or perhaps I'm over thinking things, and it's all quite normal. The GP thinks it's all very normal we are expecting too much of him to be completely dry already. But almost 4 seems awfully old to still be having accidents in the day....
Any advice, experiences, reassurances greatly appreciated!!