she is whiney, having tantrums a lot, miserable, stroppy, bossy and sometimes down right nasty. then as quick as anything she is adorable and I feel guilty for being so fed up with her.
a typical day would go
she gets up at 6 and tries to get in my bed, I ask her to go back to bed until time to get up, she screams and wakes everybody n the house up.
then when it is time to get up dd1 and 2 come and get in our bed for 5 mins, dd1 just whinges and says get up I'm bored (it is literally 5 mins if that).
we get up, make chocolate milk for dd1 and milk in a sippy cup fior dd2 who likes to sit on someones knee to drink it, while she drinks her milk dd1 starts shouting that noone has got her breakfast yet and that daddy or mummy is sat with dd2 and they should be making her breakfast.
she then has a tantrum about getting dressed for school, refuses to go for a wee, wont put her shoes on etc, once we are put of the house she changes and is lovely and chatty all the way to school.
when i pick her up she instantly whines that she wants chocolate, doesnt ewant to walk, wants someone to come and play etc.
This is pretty much it, whining and tantrums unless we are doing exactley what she wants, dd2 will actually give her a toy if she whinges because she adores her so much, that is not the right way round.
she speaks to everybody lke they are the shit on her shoe most of the time.
She is currently having a tantrum because she is painting a mug and I cant open the other paint pot as my nails are too long and daddy is on the toilet.
UI end uop feeling upset and tired and quite resentful; by the end of every day and when dh gets in I am grumpy with him and it is all going a bit wrong.
I spend mopst of my time trying to make things nice for her and she seems to hate me.
dd2 is so well behaved and placid, I dont know how to get through to dd1 and I am starting to dislike her which is making me feel like absolute crap.