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I'll be booking a one way ticket to the nut-house at this rate ...

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kando · 13/01/2009 11:24

DD2 (6) is driving me mad! This is the second week back at school and so far, every single morning it has been a battle to get her out of bed, breakfasted and ready for school. She goes to bed between 7-730 every night although she doesn't go to sleep straight away (she shares with dd1 and they both read for a while then dd1 falls asleep and dd2 reads a bit more) She will wake up in the morning but stays in bed and refuses to get out.

I've tried being jokey with her, asking her to get out of bed in my normal voice, talking quietly but firmly and getting mad with her - nothing seems to work. We end up having an argument before she's even got downstairs for breakfast. Then it's another battle to get dressed and ready for school.

I'm really at my wits end with this, it's not the way I want to start my day (I'm not a morning person either, which I suppose doesn't help). I think the worst thing is that she's got such a terrible attitude towards me - I get the "blah blah blah" and smirking and silly faces every time I say something to her, which ends up with me getting annoyed with her for being rude . I feel like I'm going round in circles. By the time we get to school, or even just round the corner from our house, she's all sweetness and light and a lovely little girl. Any advice would be very gratefully received.

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SheSellsSeashellsByTheSeashore · 13/01/2009 11:27

I went through this last term. In the end I told her she had five mins untill we left the house in whatever state of dress she was in. She proceeded in removing the clothes I had just fought to put on her and got the schock of her life when she was picked up by me and dumped outside in just her knickers and top.

She never tried it again.

sandyballs · 13/01/2009 11:29

Big sympathies. I've written a very similar thread in 'Parenting'.

moopymoo · 13/01/2009 11:30

Yes I have had to contend with this and I did something similar to shesells - told ds in a light tone that we were leaving in 10 mins whatever nhe was dressed in and ended up putting him in the car in his pjs and started driving to school - i had his clothes with me and we pulled over for him to put them on. he now has a clock in his room which I set to count down the time till we leave and he is much improved.

kando · 13/01/2009 11:43

Sandyballs, just read your thread in parenting. Frightening similarities - right down to the fact that both their names being with "O"!

She does get dressed in time (usually!). It's the attitude I get from her when I'm asking her to to get ready for school. I'm struggling with getting her out of bed without both of us having a tantrum; and I'm finding it really hard not to have a meltdown myself about her attitude towards me. She would never, ever in a month of Sundays, dream of speaking to her dad like that. I don't think it's spilling over into school as the teacher always seems very complimentary about her, and equally I don't think anything is going on at school to make her like this. I hope to god this is a passing phase - dd1 was never like this (although she's had her moments!). I find myself being as childish with her sometimes as she is with me, which is a ridiculous situation to be in, and it's not going to help us get over this issue either. ARGH

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kando · 13/01/2009 11:44

that should be "begin" with not "being" with

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nailpolish · 13/01/2009 11:47

you arent allowed to say nut-house any more

kando · 13/01/2009 11:51

oops, sorry np

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