My son is refuses to go to the toilet all day at school, and I am regularly presented with a bag of dirty clothes when I pick him up. He is also reluctant to use the loo at home although it is not quite as bad here. The teachers are getting fed up with his constant accidents, confront me most days about it and seem to be expecting us to sort out the problem even though I keep telling her we have tried and failed various methods. We have a sticker chart (leading to reward) going at home, but this doesn't seem to be working very well. He is a real home boy, with a very stubborn streak which doesn't help and very routine-based, and has not taken to school very well. The toileting is becoming a real issue - I;m also worried he'll get a urine infection or worse. Any suggestions how we can encourage him to go when he needs it?