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How to deter bad language??

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Twigs01 · 03/10/2008 07:16

My 12 month has been taught, not by my family, to say s - - t. Shocked & upset, but don't know how to stop it. Any ideas or advice wld be very welcome.

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itwasntme · 03/10/2008 07:18

Ignore.. your baby will quickly forget it.

bumbling · 03/10/2008 08:53

F*d if I know. Seriusly I'm with Itwasntme - ignore, ignore. Your DC is way too little to remember it for long, aged 3-4-5 much much harder. Don't react at all if you can and maybe find a new word for the situations it's being used in and make it really fun and dramatic. Mine loves, "oh no what a crisis", pull faces, gesticulate wildly etc, repeat a total and utter crisis, I can't believe it, what shall we do. Just make it a much more interesting word for him/her to use on those situations and try and use in advance of her using it, so s**t doesn't become a trigger for a fun time.

HTH.

mamadiva · 03/10/2008 08:55

I'm having this problem but worse as somehow my 2YO managed to hear his dad on the fone outside and he said F**ck sake and now DS keeps saying it is really embarrassing but my mum said to ignore it too.

cory · 03/10/2008 09:34

Wouldn't worry at this age. It is pure ignorance and she will forget if she doesn't hear the word again.

Then there is the phase around 3 or 4 where they use rude words or potty language deliberately to shock you. Once you have informed them that these words are silly and you don't want to hear them, I think the best approach is not to react to much: they are only fishing for a reaction.

When they get to age 7 or 8 and use bad language, you can blow up and tell them off and make them put money in the swear kitty or whatever.

cheesesarnie · 03/10/2008 09:40

at 12 months your dc will soon forget.just ignore it.

my 2year old is going through calling everyone poo poo pants stage..and stupid,i really dont like stupid.

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