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14 month old doesn't say any words, should i be worried

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prettyladybird · 20/08/2008 21:32

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wotulookinat · 20/08/2008 23:24

well she'll know the names of lots of things just from you talking to her - bed, dinner, television, that sort of thing.

prettyladybird · 20/08/2008 23:25

hmmm id love to know what goes on in her head.
i think she know when i go ohhh whos that, when someones at the door, it means someones at the door, as she starts smiling.

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prettyladybird · 20/08/2008 23:29

thanks

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tryingtoleave · 21/08/2008 13:28

Much too early to worry. Here they expect children to have 6 words at 18 months. DS only had 3 and we got referred off to hearing tests and speech pathology clinics. It was a ridiculous and unnecessary stress. He's now 25 months, more or less talking in sentences (he told me this morning that he didn't like the nightgarden because it was 'a bit boring') and much more confident than many of his contemporaries who had more words earlier.

StealthPolarBear · 21/08/2008 13:35

DS is 16 months and has in the past said mama dadde etc but doesn't use any words consistently. Didn't point/clap/wave until late (when I compared him to his friends, not officially), went through a phase of waving and clapping about 2 weeks ago and now seems bored again.
Amazed at how much he understands though, today I pointed to some dirty clothes in his room and said "go and get those clothes and put them in this basket" - he did!!

Mikafan · 21/08/2008 13:45

DD1 is 15 months and says mama, dada, bwees (strawberry's), josh (DB1) and baba for DB2)

wotulookinat · 21/08/2008 14:16

now that's just boasting!

HairyToe · 21/08/2008 14:53

DD1 had no words at all (she didn't even open her mouth just grunted) until around 20 months. She also didn't wave or clap. I knew she could understand a lot though as she could happily follow simple instructions.
Once she started speaking she imprved really quickly and by 2 she was using sentences. She's nearly 5 now and rarely shuts up. Seems to have somehow lost the ability to follow simple instructions though

DD2 was the same - no words until relatively recently, now at 2 she's chattering away all the time. Both of mine seemed to wait until they could do it well before doing it at all.

StealthPolarBear · 21/08/2008 14:59

i did wonder if he will still be as willing to put dirty clothes in the wash when he's a teenager

prettyladybird · 21/08/2008 15:23

thanks everyone, dd does clap.
she learn't that on holiday!.

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woodstock3 · 21/08/2008 17:33

my ds is 15mo and has only just started in last couple of days saying mummy or mama. before that nothing - apart from a brief go at the dog's name, which he did for a bit and then gave up on. the other babies of the same age in our NCT group are exactly the same. my nephew didnt say anything at all til about 19 months and now doesnt shut up!
so she sounds v normal. and i bet she does understand a lot. try asking her to give you something that's nearby that she;s familiar with, like a teddy, and see if she picks the right thing up. eg ds, if you say "shall we read a book?" will usually go and get a book, but couldn't say "book" to save his life
if you want to speed thngs up the advice my sister was given about my nephew was talk to him continuously, ensure you are saying things really slowly and clearly, and repeat the same word a lot in slightly different phrases (eg if he's in the pushchair and a cat goes across the pavement, you say "look, a cat!" and then you say 'can you see the cat?' and then 'oh, it's a black cat'). supposedly that reinforces that the common word is 'cat' ie that's the name for what you can see. also describe the things she's doing while she's doing them eg 'you're playing with your ball. can you roll the ball? now you're throwing the ball at me in exasperation because i keep talking at you.'
or whatever.
and yes, you do feel like a total idiot doing it especially in public. but it can't hurt....

Bekkie32 · 31/08/2008 17:13

Hairy Toe ...I am glad you also posted here. My daughter is 12 and a half months and she does just what your little one did..the grunting..and not even opening her mouth..sort of hmmm sounds, or umm, umm sounds with mouth SHUT! I got really excited just before her birthday as she started to make some speech like sounds OPENING the mouth! we had a kind of mummmum sound and ayyayay..I thought she was starting then..but now it has stopped again...(typical)She sometimes does it if I prompt and make those sounds myself. She has had hearing and brain scans done etc..all ok. She understands no..as she also sometimes cries. She understands dont throw it on the floor and she looks at things when i ask e.g where is dad? where is the light? where is your dog? etc.. She loves animals and always looks at strangers in the face and shows interest in surroundings. She even understands the german versions of what I say (she will be bilingual..we are in germany). She is learning to point as she tries but does not clap or copy all my sounds or facial expressions. If I say do you want something to eat? she smacks her lips. Bilingual is not helping and also we have oral delays..it is taking her ages to adjust to lumpy foods. She only started to much on bread rolls, bananas baby biscuits at 11 and a half months!!! It is just that we have the same boring tones with mouth shut coming from her..but it seems I am also not the only one!

3andnomore · 31/08/2008 17:30

best way to encourage talking is really to talk to her , show her tthings, explain things and read to her....she will start talking when she is ready...she is only a Baby....

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