My DD is 9 years old and I caught her with her shorts down. I asked her why her shorts were down and she lied to me and kept lying until the truth finally came out. She puts her blanket in between her legs and rolls on her bed until she feels “weird” then goes back to bed. She has been doing this for a while. She doesn’t have access to phones, internet, nothing. I’m now wondering if I’ve failed as a mother and where this behaviour has come from. It’s just me taking care of both children, I’m there for all their activities, there’s no 3rd party involved. I don’t know how to handle this. I feel so disappointed that I didn’t catch this sooner and disappointed that she does this. Someone please help me, what do I do?